by guest blogger Tony DiNuzzo, Ph.D., Director, ETGEC-C
I found the perfect article to wrap my blog around. And then, in true fashion, I lost it. I originally found it on my Safari iPhone and “e-mailed” it to myself. It said “article sent.” I felt satisfied. So confident that I didn’t check if I actually received it. So I sat down ready to use it as a reference and it wasn’t there! I checked everywhere – in the inbox, the spam box, even in my “History.” Did I send it to my AOL address or G-mail? Did it simply vanish or is it still floating in cyber space?
By now you might be ready to say “enough of this” and move to another, more enlightening piece of literature. Well, I think you should stick around because it was about baby boomers. You know, that generation of post-World War II who I guess somehow wanted to make sure there would be enough people left in the world if there ever was another world war. So from 1946 to 1964, more than 76 million babies were born in the U.S.
And in 2011, the very first boomers turned 65 – think about for a second and the impact on social security (Reuteman, 2010), the home health care challenge, the shortage of good funeral homes and cemeteries to deal with the numbers who will need them, 41% do not have a will, etc. They have been called “The Greedy Boomers” and “The Gloomiest Generation.” They are not to be trusted and that they simply suck!
Now, about that article I couldn’t find. I did read it. It was a review of a book with great sounding chapters like “I am old now so I can be a racist” and “Ok, I don’t have a life. So what?” and my favorite “If I’m not entitled, then who is?” With age comes a feeling of “What the heck. I’m old, what can they do to me?”
I remember an old Jerry Seinfeld clip of him talking about being old in Florida. “Ever see an old person back out of a driveway? Most people are careful backing out, honk the horn and drive slowly. Not the old folks. They’re saying ‘Hey, I’m old and I’m coming through, so get out the way!’”
So is there a feeling of entitlement among Boomers? What are the important questions and issues? Is there a way of sifting through mountains of information on how to succeed as you age? How to stay healthy, wealthy and wise? If you don’t have an “estate” do you really need an estate plan? Are we ready to move retirement up to 70? When do I have my “end-of-life” discussion with my doctor or make those final arrangements?
Yes. I am very confused about this aging, baby boomer thing? And I am in the field of Geriatrics! I should know all there is to know. And yet, all I do know is I have fewer and fewer good answers since I’m not sure what the questions are.
But in an article by Rev. Amy Ziettlow, an affiliate scholar at the Institute for American Values in New York … and a strong hospice care advocate, asks the most basic question that needs to be addressed: “Baby boomers will live longer and in greater numbers than ever seen before with few youngsters to support them financially and physically. What and who will ensure that the Baby Boomers have space and time to age gracefully? “
Anyone have any ideas?
(Join us for a discussion on this blog on Wednesday, 7:30 to 8:00 a.m. Link to the meeting room: http://tinyurl.com/cjfx9ag. Also, see Discussion and SL tabs above for details)
References
- Ziettlow, A. How Will the Baby Boomers Age and Die? Blog published at KevinMD: http://www.kevinmd.com/blog/2012/01/baby-boomers-age-die.html
- Reuteman, R. Will Baby Boomers Bankrupt Social Security? Blog published at CNBC on 2-8-2010: http://www.cnbc.com/id/34941334/Will_Baby_Boomers_Bankrupt_Social_Security
August 15, 2012 at 8:42 am
Transcript of the Weekly Discussion on Aging from August 15, 2012
[05:25] Coffee Mug whispers: Ahh! Fresh Hot Coffee
[05:29] Rodger Markova: Good morning Rebecca
[05:30] Saphira Avindar: Good morning Rodger
[05:32] Rodger Markova: Hello Don
[05:32] Rodger Markova: I’ve put together some notes for the discussion
[05:32] Zaphod Lednev: Hello
[05:33] Rodger Markova: Welcome Drdtrain. Come in and sit down
[05:35] Rodger Markova: Hello Kay
[05:35] Drdtrain: Thanks
[05:35] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Good morning.
[05:36] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): 7:30 snuck up on me!
[05:36] Rodger Markova: It tends to do that
[05:37] Rodger Markova: Did everyone get the note cards?
[05:37] Zaphod Lednev: Got mine
[05:37] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Yes.
[05:39] Rodger Markova: I’m Rodger Marion. Drdtrain? What is your RL name?
[05:39] Rodger Markova: Zaphod over there is Don Brunder, Kay is Kay Sandor and Saphira is Rebecca Galloway
[05:40] Rodger Markova: OK. Thank you all for coming today and to begin — Tony concludes his blog with, “What and who will ensure that the Baby Boomers have space and time to age gracefully?” Any ideas?
[05:41] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I’m a boomer.
[05:41] Rodger Markova: Me too
[05:42] Saphira Avindar: my mother is a boomer
[05:42] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I have an intention to age with grace.
[05:42] Drdtrain: OK. I wanted to come up with a very general starting point for this. So with the 1946 Baby Bs turning 65 in 2011 I thought let’s discuss some challenges for this generation.
[05:42] Zaphod Lednev: Me also. Tony talked about entitlement. I think boomers are entitled to age gracefully
[05:42] Rodger Markova: Is the issue of the Baby Boomer bulge in the population really as critical as many seem to think?
[05:43] Saphira Avindar: big challenge – enough health care providers to serve boomers
[05:43] Rodger Markova: Aren’t they being served now by health care providers? Why do we need more?
[05:43] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): We’ve worked to care for our bodies, minds, and spirits and we are living longer. The bulge is real.
[05:44] Drdtrain: Good question. I think we will adapt to the numbers and the population increase will be a blip. But I worry about how misinformation can create some problems.
[05:44] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I have insurance–still working.
[05:45] Saphira Avindar: We have a chronic shortage of rehab professionals and emphasis on training more new PTs
[05:45] Drdtrain: We have known for a long time of the shortage of HPs. Especially in Geriatrics.
[05:45] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): My access to HC is good.
[05:45] Rodger Markova: So is mine and I live in rural texas
[05:46] Saphira Avindar: Also most difficult to keep PTs in settings like SNF and home health
[05:46] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Geriatics = > 80 years.
[05:46] Drdtrain: At least here – 80+. That message I think is realtively new. Some still think 65+
[05:46] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I’m 65. (Yup–a boomer)
[05:47] Saphira Avindar: 65 is the new “young old”; 85+ the gracefully old
[05:47] Rodger Markova: What might we think are the sources of misinformation?
[05:48] Saphira Avindar: media – rarely uses appropriate citations
[05:48] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Great question. I’m not sure. Yes, media.
[05:48] Rodger Markova: Any other sources?
[05:48] Drdtrain: All the anti-aging info gives aging a bad feel.
[05:48] Saphira Avindar: media often focuses on case reports (anecdotally) rather than research
[05:49] Drdtrain: How to educate those of what is real or just a commercial scam.
[05:49] Rodger Markova: How about politicians as sources of misinformation?
[05:50] Drdtrain: Definitely! And it is kind of scary.
[05:51] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): We have photos by a local artist in the halls where I work of aged men and women. They are just beautiful!
[05:51] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): She (the photographer) has captured their grace.
[05:51] Saphira Avindar: It should be easier to read proposed legislation and actually interpret it!
[05:51] Drdtrain: And their pain, their joys and wisdom!
[05:52] Rodger Markova: Special interest groups? For example, does the gathering of public funds for a new UT medical school in Austin have any real potential for improving health care? Or might those billions be spend in some more direct fashion to create and provide health services?
[05:53] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Oh! Don’t get me started . . .
[05:53] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Purely political
[05:54] Drdtrain: When there are so many $$$ at stake – hard to think it could be an easy solution. Special interest groups will take advantage somehow.
[05:54] Rodger Markova: Pogo said, “We have seen the enemy and they are us.”
[05:55] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): AARP is a special interest group with a strong voice
[05:55] Saphira Avindar: I have tried to convince students that they will all eventually work with older adults whether they want to admit it or not
[05:55] Rodger Markova: Heck, they will become older adults
[05:55] Saphira Avindar: Even if they go into pediatrics, they are providing caregiver training to grandparents who help raise their grandkids
[05:56] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Try to convince them they will all be older adults one day!
[05:56] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): They prone to say, “If I die one day . . .”
[05:56] Drdtrain: Set them up with some Geriatric sensitivity training.
[05:56] Saphira Avindar: You don’t want to know what age a 25 year old thinks is “old”
[05:57] Drdtrain: I know – it is 40! Or maybe 30.
[05:57] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): A cultural shift is needed.
[05:57] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I think the boomers may be the ones to do it.
[05:57] Rodger Markova: What might 1) society, and then 2) we as individuals need to provide in terms of space and time in order for anyone to age gracefully?
[05:58] Saphira Avindar: Being able to stay in your own home as you age is a key component of the grace.
[05:58] Drdtrain: Bring back more funding and resources for mental health care.
[05:58] Saphira Avindar: also “active retirement” to prevent de-conditioning
[05:59] Drdtrain: Continue the message to maximize health through nutrition and exercise to maintain independence/function.
[05:59] Saphira Avindar: we used to think that weakness was inevitable part of aging – that is until 90 y/o people started running marathons!
[06:00] Drdtrain: Just take a look at [the film] “Age of Champions.” Talk about successful aging!
[06:01] Saphira Avindar: I would like to play that video for students
[06:01] Rodger Markova: From the other side: What might 1) society, and then 2) we as individuals be doing to hinder the possibility for anyone to age gracefully?
[06:01] Drdtrain: But the point of the blog article was the lack of available support through family and friends. Should we think more of not living so far apart from those we care about?
[06:01] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I love to see Mary (age 80) at the UTMB Field House.
[06:02] Saphira Avindar: there are cultural differences in the viewpoints about caring for our older parents/friends
[06:02] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Elders have been encourage to move closer to their children, rather than expect their children to move to us.
[06:02] Rodger Markova: We have done the opposite and drug our children back from Florida and California to be in the Hill Country.
[06:03] Saphira Avindar: There is also an assumption that all older adults have family; some do not
[06:03] Rodger Markova: The very old outlive family
[06:03] Drdtrain: True. But then they become a burden which is not what they want.
[06:03] Saphira Avindar: I have seen 90 y/o caregivers for a more disabled 70 y/o son/daughter
[06:04] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): I have” family” at church, in my neighborhood, in my professional groups
[06:04] Rodger Markova: It is 8:04 a.m. and we have reached our ending point. Any final comments?
[06:04] Saphira Avindar: Thanks for the chat
[06:04] Drdtrain: So soon? Time flies when having fun!
[06:04] Professor Kay Texan (kay.texan): Great chat! Thanks all
[06:04] Zaphod Lednev: Thankx
[06:04] Rodger Markova: Thank you all. Next week, new topic.
[06:05] Drdtrain: Bye