In 1970, Dianne and I saw the Broadway cast performance of the musical “Hair” in San Antonio. One of the songs had this line “… this is the dawning of the Age of Aquarius…” and on last Friday (12-21-12) it finally dawned. After 40 plus years of waiting the Age of Aquarius has begun and the dreams of a generation are moving into the final act of their time on stage.
I wondered however if we of the Baby Boomer generation are too late for this great age of enlightenment.
A digression: The exact moment of this dawn is open to opinion as the beginning point for this new age has different interpretations. According to Wikipedia, “In Western astrological traditions, precession is measured from the March equinox, one of the two annual points at which the Sun is exactly halfway between its lowest and highest points in the sky. Presently, the Sun’s March equinox position is in the constellation Pisces and is moving back into Aquarius. This signals the end of one astrological age (the Age of Pisces) and the beginning of another (the Age of Aquarius)” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2012_phenomenon). But since others make its beginning as 1844 or 2600, I figure now is good enough for government work (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_of_Aquarius).
So, how do we, the now older generation, use a new age of enlightenment as we move into the time period of final reflections and letting go. Well, the only thing I know is to reflect and discuss. There is actually no answer except what we decide for ourselves. Thus, to aid our processes, people of all ages need to mindfully consider the paths they have trod and where the future road leads.
One way to stimulate this reflection is through movies. Not educational ones (nothing against those) but dramatic films offer more for the heart than movies made for teaching. An old favorite is “On Golden Pond” where the characters reflect on their lives and the inevitable future when one of the partners dies and leaves the other to finish the trail alone. A new film also exploring the end of the road is “Amour.” Finally, I do recommend one of my films, “Healer,” for the way it considers illness and our time span on this earth.
Since the film “The Hobbit” is just out, we’ll close with a quote from Mr. Bilbo Baggins:
The Road goes ever on and on
Down from the door where it began.
Now far ahead the Road has gone,
And I must follow, if I can,
Pursuing it with eager feet,
Until it joins some larger way
Where many paths and errands meet.
And whither then? I cannot say.
- J.R.R. Tolkien, “The Fellowship of the Ring”
Resources
- On Golden Pond (1981) – http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0082846
- Amour (2012) – http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1602620
- Healer (2008) – http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1367211
Image – http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Milkyway_Swan_Panorama.jpg
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January 3, 2013 at 8:41 am
Transcript – Discussion on Aging – January 2, 2013
[10:14] Rodger Markova: Hi Regina. Happy New Year
[10:15] ReginaJKnox: Thanks! Happy New Year to you also!
[10:15] Rodger Markova: I have posted an annual report on the blog as the latest posting. It’s quite useful and there were about 2100 views of the blogs this year
[10:16] Drdtrain: Great. didn’t realize there were that many. Hi Regina!
[10:16] ReginaJKnox: Hi Dr dtrain
[10:17] Rodger Markova: Dr Dtrain is Tony, Regina
[10:18] Drdtrain: Yes, Regina – like my ‘Maxrtix’ look?
[10:20] ReginaJKnox: Kinda Goth looking
[10:19] Drdtrain: They call me Dr. D-train at Waterman’s. I get interesting looks when I tell them I work at UTMB in Geriatrics.
[Off topic discussion continued for awhile]
[10:34] Drdtrain: Nice blog on ‘Hair.’ I remember loving the music – definitely broke some new ground – but never thought of it in terms of aging.
[10:34] ReginaJKnox: In your post this week you talked about enlightenment and astrology. I find both topics interesting. Never related them to aging before.
[10:35] Rodger Markova: Yes, the Age of Aquarius is so associated with the Boomers that it makes some new connectins for aging as well
[10:35] ReginaJKnox: I wonder what “Age” is associated with the Gen X?
[10:36] Rodger Markova: Well, it will be the Age of Aquarius for the next 2000 years or so
[10:36] Rodger Markova: Hi Cheryl. Welcome and happy new year
[10:37] Havanuther Latte: Hey, Hi to you too and Happy New Year
[10:37] Rodger Markova: I do think that the generations now entering early old age (like me) will change the landscape for the elderly in ways we have not yet considered
[10:38] ReginaJKnox: How so?
[10:38] Havanuther Latte: I think we might be a little more open-minded and adventurous
[10:38] Rodger Markova: The people who a 70 or so now are very different from the WWII generation of our parents
[10:39] ReginaJKnox: That’s true
[10:39] Drdtrain: Well the current group young-old will be more tech savvy but still challenged to keep up with the Millennium generation.
[10:40] Rodger Markova: … and while our parents were the best off financially in US history, the boomers are carrying forth vast wealth and that changes the game
[10:40] ReginaJKnox: I’m afraid of what “elderly” will look like when I enter that stage of my life.
[10:41] Drdtrain: We always think of older groups as ‘teachers’ for the young based on more experience. I’m not sure that will continue in the same way – maybe due to differences in priorities for both groups.
[10:41] Rodger Markova: Your generations will be different still
[10:41] Havanuther Latte: I’m already starting to ask questions about “assisted living situations” where I can be sure to have like minded life-long learner people around me.
[10:42] Rodger Markova: yes, that’s a new mindset as our parents were pretty good a avoiding planning ahead, well at least mine were
[10:42] ReginaJKnox: I have a close friend in North Carolina who is 49 and shopping for assisted living due to health problems.
[10:43] Drdtrain: I’m hoping for a bit more acceptance of aging as a way to look to the future in a positive way. Something the GEC stresses.
[10:43] Rodger Markova: Yes, assisted living settings have changed and evolved in the last 10 years or so
[10:43] Havanuther Latte: I don’t think I’m near there yet, but I want to know what the best options are just in case.
[10:43] Rodger Markova: Right
[10:44] Rodger Markova: I think changing views on spirituality also affect how we age and our expectations
[10:45] Havanuther Latte: How so?
[10:45] Rodger Markova: Old ideas of salvation have evolved and expectations for the next phase after this one are different now.
[10:46] ReginaJKnox: I value the morals of the Baby Boomer era. The younger generation seems to have lost connection with basic concepts like respect and honesty often taught through religion or spirituality.
[10:46] Drdtrain: More choices for individual needs – spiritually, economically, medically etc…
[10:47] Rodger Markova: Yes to both thoughts
[10:47] Havanuther Latte: Actually I hope that I am seeing far more flexibility in even the expectation that one should be spiritual at all.
[10:47] Rodger Markova: But I have been impressed that our current students are more service oriented and really seem more people oriented
[10:48] Rodger Markova: Yes, I agree. At least in some cultures spiritual options are more varied and different choices are respected
[10:49] Drdtrain: There is a certain high level of consciousness in the current young generation with feelings they can do more good, fix the environment before its too late – maybe a sense of urgency.
[10:50] Rodger Markova: Our time is up for today. I do thank you for coming to the brief lunchtime excursion into philosophy.
[10:50] Havanuther Latte: Thanks. Bye
[10:50] Drdtrain: ok. Thanks Rodger and all. Have a great week. Bye
[10:50] ReginaJKnox: Thank you. Bye
[10:50] Rodger Markova: Bye everyone
A note on time: The discussion is held between 12:15 PM and 12:45 PM Central time but Second Life uses Pacific Time and so times shown are two hours earlier for those of us in Texas.