I was thinking thankfulness yesterday. Well, first I was thinking. “Time to split logs for firewood as it’s going to be cold and rainy tomorrow.”
Last month a friend helped me to cut down a huge Escarpment Black Cherry tree that had succumbed to the persistent drought. We stacked the logs down the hill from my house. Now, I began hauling them up to the garage where my chopping block, axe, sledge and wedge awaited. After a few trips, each carrying about all the logs I could manage, I found I was breathing hard and sweating (Well… it was pretty warm and swampy before the cold front moved in).
Never-the-less, it crossed my mind, as it often does, that I’m getting older and need to expect to get tuckered out faster than when I was just 60 or so. Then, I counter with, “Hey! I’ve always breathed hard and sweated after exercise! Even in my 20’s and during Air Force basic training in San Antonio in August running a mile in under 8 minutes nearly killed me. So, I conclude that I’m doing rather well these days to still be hauling wood and splitting logs. Abe Lincoln, Ronald Reagan and me… not too shabby company.
So being thankful for being as fit as I still am led me to the notion of longevity. My grandparents, both pairs of them, had five children each. Of those, I have two uncles, in their early 90’s on my mother’s side and on my dad’s side, one aunt, who will be 100 in February. So, that’s sort of a 30% survival rate for my relatives.
Back in blog 32, I discussed a cool web site with extremely, clever animated graphs dealing with longevity (Spiegelhalter, 2008). One of the charts indicates that 2% of newborns survive to be 98 years old. So my living aunt is one of the very few and so I’m so thankful I’m doing as well as I am on my own personal survival path.
Join us for a real-time discussion about questions raised by this essay on Tuesday from 12:00 p.m. to 12:45 p.m. See Discussion and SL tabs above for details. Link to the virtual meeting room: http://tinyurl.com/cjfx9ag.
References
- Blog for Week 32, What Are the Odds? – http://wp.me/pH3Dx-3M
- Spiegelhalter, D. Understanding uncertainty: How long will you live? +Plus Magazine, 2008. http://plus.maths.org/content/understanding-uncertainty-how-long-will-you-live
Miscellaneous Bits – Various Days
- International Day of Older Persons. http://www.un.org/en/events/olderpersonsday http://webtv.un.org/search/international-day-of-older-persons-the-future-we-want-what-older-persons-are-saying/2732965451001?term=International%20Day%20of%20Older%20Persons
- International Women’s Day. http://www.internationalwomensday.com
- International Men’s Day . http://www.internationalmensday.com/united-states.html http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/womens-blog/2013/nov/19/feminist-international-mens-day
- Universal Children’s Day. http://www.un.org/en/events/childrenday
Image Source: UN Photo/Milton Grant of an older person in Havana. http://www.un.org/en/events/olderpersonsday/images/IYOP_2013.jpg
November 22, 2013 at 3:50 pm
Thanks, Rodger, for reminding that every change I notice such as breathing hard is not always about aging. It’s important to keep things in perspective!
December 17, 2013 at 3:44 pm
Transcript – Weekly Discussion on Aging – Held in Second Life – 11-26-13
[10:01] Roxie Marten: hey rodger
[10:01] Rodger Markova: Hello Roxie
[10:02] Rodger Markova: Hello iSkye
[10:03] iSkye Silverweb: Hi Rodger
[10:14] Roxie Marten: I live in the north I know about splitting wood LOL
[10:14] Rodger Markova: Yes, and it’s been so cold this week that I need to get out and split some more
[10:15] thebiblethumper999 Resident: It’s snowing here
[10:15] Roxie Marten: you live Texas. anything below 80 is freezing LOL
[10:16] Rodger Markova: We are pretty wimpy about weather
[10:17] Rodger Markova: For this blog I was struck by two things. One, that I was thankful for this very moment and my place in it. And the curious phenomenon that adults seems so much older when I was a kid.
[10:21] Roxie Marten: people had harder lives back then
[10:21] Rodger Markova: That is probably true.
[10:22] Roxie Marten: my grandmother raised 8 kids and ran a farm during the depression by herself, my grandfather died at 27 of lock jaw
[10:22] thebiblethumper999 Resident: wow
[10:24] Roxie Marten: Read the biographies of people in the 19th century, at the age of 12 signed on to a whaling ship or laid track on the rail road. these people started living life right out of the starting gate
[10:26] Roxie Marten: my family was self made people who worked hard
[10:26] Rodger Markova: as were many, true.
[10:27] Roxie Marten: my people grew up with the axiom “if you can find a job, make a job” the idea of working for some one else seem to be akin to slavery to them
[10:28] Rodger Markova: I had an aunt with that philosophy too
[10:29] iSkye Silverweb: just watching you share notes on your families
[10:30] Rodger Markova: Hello Thinker
[10:30] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): I don’t want to interrupt
[10:31] Roxie Marten: I think about my grand fathers life. In some ways I am glad he never applied to a factory out of school and put in 40 years. his life reads like a Jack London novel
[10:31] Rodger Markova: We are discussion the blog on the screen above the fireplace
[10:31] Roxie Marten: howdy
[10:31] iSkye Silverweb: Hi Thinkerer
[10:31] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): hi all
[10:31] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): yes I know the subject — just observing
[10:31] Rodger Markova: Happy to have you here
[10:32] iSkye Silverweb: I think Thinkerer knows a thing or three about the topic
[10:32] Roxie Marten: he was a guy who lived life with both hands and died on his feet in 80’s chewed tobacco like a nip and smoked until my grandmother hid them
[10:32] Rodger Markova: Ah!
[10:32] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): aging — I plan to do that in 10 or 20 years
[10:32] iSkye Silverweb grins
[10:33] Roxie Marten snickers
[10:33] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): (I am 84)
[10:33] Roxie Marten: better than me, I am getting off this train before it’s that number
[10:34] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): no — no rush on aging — living is too much fun
[10:34] Roxie Marten: 54 and with enough health issues to make the boat payments for a few doctors
[10:36] Roxie Marten: the wheezing and gasping part of your blog touches on the old subject “quality of life” if you taking 2 steps and stopping to gasp for air. why bother living to be 100 ?
[10:36] iSkye Silverweb: well…for some people the mind outlasts the body…
[10:37] Rodger Markova: Yes, and for others the other way around
[10:37] Roxie Marten: I have a friend who is in his 70’s who says “two things you never do at his age, trust a fart or waste an erection”
[10:38] Rodger Markova: Well, yes. sage advice
[10:40] iSkye Silverweb: Trust Roxie, always, to say it like it is
[10:40] Roxie Marten: I wonder if our grandparents didn’t do it better. They lived, worked and at one point they dropped dead. Now we linger. have a heart attack, they give you a bushel basket of pills and tell you to stop eating anything that you like, later another heart attack and more pills.
[10:41] Rodger Markova: I certainly vote for installing an OFF switch. There has to be a point when I’ll really want to move on to the next adventure
[10:43] Roxie Marten: I still think about the first time I was here and we were talking about the growing old movie
[10:44] Rodger Markova: Yes?
[10:44] Roxie Marten: One reason social security is failing they never dreamed people would live as long in the future, when they put it together
[10:45] Rodger Markova: Yes. Paul Krugman has a good column on that aspect of social security today.
[10:45] Roxie Marten: something our grandparents didn’t have to deal with in aging, they knew that one day it’s over
[10:45] Rodger Markova: The increases in longevity are not equal across society. There are still wide segments of the population with limited life expectancy.
[10:46] iSkye Silverweb: I don’t think longevity ever was equal across society
[10:46] Rodger Markova: No, true
[10:46] iSkye Silverweb: people in certain parts of the world or certain jobs
[10:47] iSkye Silverweb: miners
[10:47] Rodger Markova: yes
[10:47] iSkye Silverweb: that’s a first example that comes to mind
[10:47] iSkye Silverweb: and it wasn’t just them, but their families, whoever lived with them, would also tend to live shorter lives
[10:48] Roxie Marten: agreed
[10:48] Rodger Markova: yes, poverty in a family affects everyone
[10:48] iSkye Silverweb: working conditions – miners brought those home with them
[10:49] iSkye Silverweb: the industrial revolution – “Cough with us!”
[10:49] Rodger Markova: Our time is up for this week and I thank you for attending.
[10:50] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): thanks you
[10:50] Rodger Markova: Thinker, I post our dicussion on the blog as a comment
[10:50] Rodger Markova: Do you have any objection to your comments being posted?
[10:51] ThinkererSelby Evans (Thinkerer Melville): not at all
[10:51] Rodger Markova: Thank you.
[10:57] iSkye Silverweb: Happy Thanksgiving to you all!
[10:58] Roxie Marten: thanks for hosting
[10:58] Rodger Markova: Bye